Parents, do you want your child happy for the first birthday? Then you have to make sure they take their nap before the party.
I can see the look in the parent’s eyes as I walk through the door. They are stressed, and it doesn’t take long to figure out why? The birthday child has the expression as if they sucking on sour patch kids candy. This child is having no part of their 1st birthday party. They are tired and need a nap.
The first birthday party cake sits in its glory; a thing of beauty created by a Master Baker. You feel guilty cutting into those layers of colored frosting and fondant, but once you have scraped off the sugar, food coloring, and decoration, you’re left with cake.
If you want to have a memorable first birthday party, have a delicious tasting cake.
I cannot tell you how many times a family member has bitten into a cake and instantly their taste buds remind them of other birthday party cake experiences. “Do you remember (insert name here) birthday party?” “Wasn’t that a terrible cake,” utters a family member.
Cake, that sugar-coated, butter filled, flavored delight is the most memorable part of a first birthday party. It doesn’t matter what the birthday child wears, the food you serve, or how fancy the appetizers are, it’s all about the taste of the cake.
Stated, White, Chocolate and Marble are the most popular cakes. Veer from these choices and the approval rating drops.
It is exciting to buy a fancy birthday cake with decorative design, colors, and unique shape. But it’s the cake. And yes, sometimes it’s the filling, that makes a birthday party memorable.
Over the years I have tried private bakeries, homemade, and store-bought cakes and found some of the best tasting cakes come from the local grocery store. Are they over the top, eye-catching, painstakingly decorated by a confectionery artist? No. But they taste great, and people ask for a second helping.
Think of all the birthday parties you’ve attended in your life. The main memory of the party is how the caked tasted. It wasn’t the pirate ship, Elmo, or covered in pink frosting cake you remember; it’s the taste.
The key to having a great 1st birthday party is to make sure the birthday cake tastes great!
I am the type of parent that likes to do crafty stuff. For my sons 1st birthday party I wanted to make sure that everyone knew that he was the birthday boy. I, of course, looked around on the internet for fun pictures. I found one I thought was fun and put my spin on it. This is what I did for my son’s 1st birthday invite.
I used two old sheets. You need old sheets to do this because it gets messy.
I positioned it so that both sheets acted as one big backdrop. I had some of it on the floor and some or most of it behind him. I needed to have it held up by something so we used a couple of ladders. Two utility clamps fastened it onto the ladder creating a vertical backdrop.
I blew up some balloons for abeyance and lucky for me my husband has a helium tank, but you can get helium balloons at your local party store. I found blue balloons with the #1 and happy birthday on them. Balloons can be purchased at the local party supply store too. I have seen them at Wal-Mart or Target, just check the birthday cards. Arrange the balloons at different levels around the backdrop. This formed the backdrop for my son picture.
I added a spotlight to for more light in the room. It was not a professional spotlight, but an automotive spotlight that my husband had in the garage. When taking a digital picture you want to make sure you have enough light in the room. Adding too much light will cause dark shadows, so play around with the lighting.
I also bought a hat for him, it was a little something that I was going to have him wear for his party, but thought he looked cute in it.
The most important thing, besides the birthday boy, was the cake. It was a one-tier cake I bought at the local grocery store. You can make one, but for all of the effort necessary to have it look great, it’s just easier to buy one. I know it is a little cheaper to make it but time is money too.
Those are all of the things you will need to do the photo shoot. Now, for the pictures. We stripped him down to his diaper because, frankly, it was cuter. Also, I did not have to get more cake into his hair when I needed to take off his shirt. Something to remember at the birthday party. It’s cute to see them full of cake, but it just more mess later for me to clean up.
When he was down to the diaper, I plopped him onto the sheet and tried to get him to stay there until I brought the cake out. He sat still because he had no idea what was going on. When I put the cake in front of him there was no hesitation. He dug right in.
Start taking pictures and don’t stop. I took so many pictures and I had a blast doing it.
By the time I was done taking pictures he was full of cake and needed to take a bath after. However, it was worth it. Make sure that the bigger part of the sheet is covering the floor, because you DO NOT want cake frosting on the carpet. Unless you’re getting new carpet, which I wasn’t.
Well, that is how did my own DIY photo shoot. I hope that this encourages you to do your own 1st birthday party invites. It was fun for me my husband and hopefully, it will be fun for you too.
I have an extra invitation set aside for my son when he gets engages, just to show his fiancé. Oh, what fun I will have showing off this picture and remembering the memories made that day.
About the Author
Michelle Obrochta is a mother of two boys, a wife to an entertainer, and runs a balloon business. Planning is a passion of Michelle’s and is always quick to volunteer to help in planning an event, participate in a school function, or help make the event special.
Here is the scenario; your cousin invites you to their child’s first birthday party. It is going to be this weekend, and you have no idea what to get. Well, join the club.
It is a tricky thing, a birthday present. You never know what the parents are expecting. Do you buy something for the outside? Do you get an educational toy? Do you buy clothes? Well, all of the above are good ideas. I usually do the following.
If you know the child, it is a little bit easier. Remember, they are just children. Gender toys really do not matter. If you have a boy that likes dolls then get the boy a doll. If the girl likes cars then, by all means, get her cars. You just never know. In addition, if you do not feel comfortable getting them those specific things then do this. Get the girl a girl car. I know that one large popular movie has girl cars on it. For the boy, find a cartoon that has a boy character.
Here are my tips on finding the appropriate gift for the specific child.
Do Not, I repeat Do Not get anything they can put in their mouths. They are getting teeth and EVERYTHING goes in the mouth. No really, everything.
Take into consideration the living space. You are not going to want to get a large toy if the house they are living in is not large.
Ask the parents if they would like something specific for the child. I always do this. If the parent says he/she is going to need some new summer clothes or bathing suit then wham, your shopping trip is going to be so easy.
Ask the parents again if they want educational toys or something for outside or specific movie toys. I have a cousin that just wanted stuff for outside play. Then another one that said, only educational toys. I am sorry but for a 1-year-old, everything is educational. (Well that did not help now did it?)
I hope this clears up what you should get a 1 year old for a present. You just have to remember they are little ones. Everything is new. Everything is fun. Always ask the mom and dad for ideas as they know the child the best.
Birthday cake on the floor, family members show up late, and restaurant over books the room, the birthday child is extra cranky, and the parents have the flu. First birthdays have become a stressful event for parents with many things they cannot micromanage.
The pressure to plan the perfect party with all the trimmings has increased over the years. For over 27-years I have been entertaining at 1st birthday parties and have talked with a lot of stressed-out parents. All guests want is good food, drink, and cake. If the décor is cute and the baby is dress adobe, you’re halfway to having a successful birthday party.
Don’t let the things you can’t control stress you out. Things you can control don’t micromanage. The purpose of the 1st birthday is to celebrate your child’s 1st year of life. Sit back, relax and enjoy this day. The child only has one 1st birthday and before you know it, their 21.
About the Author- Magical Balloon-dude Dale is a professional kids entertainer who has been entertaining at 1st birthday parties for decades and has seen it all. He is now sharing his experiences with his readers.
The fun of a 1st birthday party is watching the guest of honor smash a birthday cake into their face, hair, and clothing. Cameras are flashing; the family is laughing, all while the baby is reaching for another handful of cake. The audience cheers for the baby to get messier and the more they do it, the happier the crowd.
Have you noticed that everyone wants to hold the baby except when the baby has a diaper full or has birthday cake frosting from head to toe? Dads magically disappear with some project that prevents them from the baby cleanup. Therefore, it all falls on mom to do the dirty work. Moms now have to struggle to clean the baby, but also keep themselves from getting dirty doing it.
Moms have a change of clothes ready – you are going to get dirty cleaning up that bundle of joy. Kids squirm, faucets splash, cake frosting, gets everywhere, and just the confines of a bathroom make cleanup a problematic task.
Mothers plan and have extra clothing for the baby, but often forget about themselves. Prepare to have a second shirt or outfit ready for you. This way both mother and child will look their best for the remainder of the party.